One of the most common causes of anxiety for intended parents at the beginning of their family building journey via surrogacy centers around the issue of finding the right surrogate match. Although there are basic, universal criteria that all surrogates must pass in order to even be considered a suitable carrier, there are additional unique characteristics of all individuals that will make a certain match better or worse suited for you. When it's time for the all important first "match meeting" there are some tried and true tips that help intended parents determine if it's the right match, while at the same time setting the stage for an emotionally healthy, respectful journey ahead.